This page is for anyone who wants to hire a confinement lady or short term nanny, especially for twins mother whom have high risk of pre-mature babies, or babies whom born with illness.
I didn't manage to book her as my confinement lady. Both my confinement ladies have no experience in handling twins. Towards the end of my confinement, I broke down in hospital with my sick twins, very tired of taking care of twins round the clock for 20 days, eventually I have to beg my confinement lady to stay at hospital taking care of my twins a few hours a day so that I can be release and have few hours for uninterrupted sleep at home. Later when I knew auntie L, I realize she had help many mummies take care of their babies in hospital many years ago.
She works for me as stay-in nanny for one month in my twins 3rd month. She put my twins sleep through the night in a week. She diligently bring my babies for sun bath every day which helps to resolve my babies skin problems, especially the rashes on cheeks and private parts, without applying any cream prescribed by doctor. I was about to give up breast milk as no matter how hard I tried, I
only managed to pump out very little milk, 10ml a day. She encourages me continue pumping, never give up, reminding me that my milk is the best thing for my twins' wellness especially they have holes in their hearts. Moreover, she said breast milk can help baby gain weight ( since mine are pre-mature under weight) , resolve constipation, also it helps them to clean the white spots on their tongue.
When she was with me, I manage to have some free time. My babies routine is sleep, milk, burp, then sleep again. Unlike the previous month nanny, she stayed awake at night to care for my babies and I have to let her take nap for 2-3 hours in the afternoon. Auntie L didn't take nap longer than one hour, as she didn't have to stay awake during night time since my twins sleep through the night.
Sometimes in the afternoon, we even spend time to make pau...haha, not bad huh, two full time twin carers able to accomplish so much, baby sitting, house work, cooking 3 meals plus baking. Sometimes I go out whole afternoon & let her manage the twins, my twins sleep about 2-3 hours in the afternoon, when I return, she usually already finish all the house work ( wipe the fans, mop the floor & etc. ). It was then that I told myself, why not I try handle my twins alone without helper, since Auntie L can do it, why not me.....?
Below is her profile that I have put together for her for your reference.
Name: Auntie L
Age: 52 years old
Healthy and strong
Good attitude
Speaks Chinese, Malay & English
Strengths:
1. Extensive Knowledge in Nutrition & Chinese Medicine, ability to differentiate real & false Chinese medicine.
1. Extensive Knowledge in Nutrition & Chinese Medicine, ability to differentiate real & false Chinese medicine.
2. Support & encourage breast feedings. If you don’t have enough breast milk, she will share with you the secret of increasing milk.
3. Experience in taking care of 5 pairs of twins for confinement and the babies growing up healthily.
Background:
Sept 2011 – date: Confinement Lady ( worked for Chinese, Malay, Indian and Mat Salleh family before, been travel to Australia and other parts of the world )
August 2011: Taking care of a new born with heart problem at hospital during confinement period, the new born were staying at ICU since birth. Initially doctor said baby would need to stay at hospital for minimum 3 months, but after her support through mummy breast feeding, the new born were discharge 3 weeks after operation.
March 2008 - Aug 2011: Baby sister – take care of baby from birth till 2 years old.
During her tenure of service, the toddler did not fall sick for 2.5 years, except when during her off day where the toddler was taken care by her parents. The toddler were able to turn her back at 2.5 months and able to walk by holding the bed side at 5th months under her care.
During her tenure of service, the toddler did not fall sick for 2.5 years, except when during her off day where the toddler was taken care by her parents. The toddler were able to turn her back at 2.5 months and able to walk by holding the bed side at 5th months under her care.
2007: Nanny for a toddler with asthma (3 years old) 。This toddler’s asthma is so critical that he required to be supported by oxygen tube 24 hours. After her dedicated care for 4 months, the toddler does not require oxygen support anymore, the doctor were surprised with his recovery progress.
2005 - 2006: 11 months taking care of a baby girl having illness in hospital ICU (The baby girl has cleft palate,epilepsy, blind, cramps).
How Much?
Charges: RM 5000 for 28 days service within KL, Malaysia; excluding “Ang Pow”
Deposit RM 500 for booking confirmation
Outstation transportation paid by client
Outside Malaysia: subject for discussion & availability
As of today ( 21 Oct 15) She is available from 20 Nov – 31 Dec 2015 & May 2016 onwards.
Those who are interested and sincere in engaging her service, kindly pm/email me your contact #, due date, location. Will get her to contact you should she is available.
Hi. I've just found out that I am expecting Twins end October 2017. My confinement lady has just backed out from our agreement after finding out that I'm having twins (now feeling the stress). Are you able to share with me Aunty L's contact? Thank you!
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ReplyDeleteAm expecting twins early May 18. Will appreciate if you can share her contact. Thanks!
Khaw.ph@gmail.com
Hi! Did you find a good confinement lady after all? I’m expecting twins in October and also searching for one. Do share if you have any advice. Thanks!!
DeleteHi. I’m expecting twins in October 2018 and looking for an experienced confinement lady. Can you share aunties contact with me at jhl719@gmail.com or at 012 2289565. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteHi could you please share her contacts?
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