I am your mummy!

Being twins full time mummy:

1. Sleep less, rest less, work almost 18 hours a day

2. Feel bad when both twins cried for milk initially, I keep on telling the other one, "Hold on Please, Gor Gor first or Mui Mui first ya!"

3. Feel bad when I need to cook and yet both cry for my attention and want me to carry, later I immune to your cry and let it be, T2 very fast learnt that no one will bothers her and she just stop crying. T1 very persistent crying for hug for longest time, I keep on telling myself, no worries, no body will die, despite T1 has hole inside his heart, I let him cry, then my first Filipino maid told me that morning crying strengthen his lung. After few sessions, T1 also learn and each time his cries is maximum 30 minutes.  I let him sleep alone at the cot instead of carry him sleep next to me, coz his sister will follow and both will play then and not sleep in the afternoon. He watches me sleeping on bed and cried loud loud, until sleep.

4. Sometimes mummy very tired and busy, mummy miss out to bathe you both, once or twice in a month during first 9 months. When I realise, was already 8pm plus at night, so decided just wipe your body.

5. Sometimes mummy very angry with your daddy, very upset with your grandmother, but mummy always tell myself, I am your mummy and I shall give you a home that full of love, full of harmony, full of laughter and and not full of quarrel and crying right? So everything I do I do it for you both.

6. Sometimes mummy feel like wanna back to work, but mummy understand mummy cannot have everything in this world, when mummy stays at home looks after your, mummy feels better and more secure.

7. Everything is give and take, I never regret my decision and I surrounded myself w full time happy mummies near and far.

8. Keep on remind myself to set learning and growing goals for you both.

9. What motivates me is everyday I remind myself to stay happy by doing things that I enjoy, could be making new friends, try a new recipe, watch a nice show, play and laugh with my twins.

Temper Tantrum

Both twins started to have temper tantrum 

Yesterday T1 open fridge and throw out one egg

Next he pull the rice container and causing all rice fall on floor

T2 climbs up up on grill and refuse to come down

Most funny part is she remove her cloths, naked and play with her body, haha

Every day both fights, both bites each other

Both likes to climb up the table, climb up high chair on their own using chair, climb up to my computer table and throw everything they can reach

Today T1 throw out our expensive camera, daddy needs to buy new one again

T1 also throw my phone before, causing my phone glass broken, luckily daddy have protection sheet, only need to change outer part.

T2 fell down many times recently, especially during evening when she is sleepy and try to climb up an down. Daddy said this weekend bring her check-up...daddy very worry and concern.

 

Flu at 22 months

Source of virus/bacteria:

1. Outside, as we went out almost every weekend and let you both eat a little bit of  outside food, you both just wanted follow what we eat :-)

2. Play ground: Dare not tell daddy, mummy been bringing your out to play ground for fun, could be from other kids

From 26 Sept

Mon- Tue: T1 vomit, T2 diarrhea 

Both having cough and running nose

Friday night: T2 fever, temp maintain at 38C for whole night, decided give panadol on Sat morning b4 seeing doctor

Saturday: See doc, doc prescribe:

1. Antibiotic ( Once a day for min 3 days, max 5 days if still not recover after 3 days; 3.5 ml )

2. Axcel Dexchlorpheniramine Forte Syrup 2.5ml , 3 times a day until recover

3. Cough Syrup 2.5ml, 3 times a day until recover

4. Axcel Paracetamol-250 Suspensivion (Strawberry)  2.5ml, only if fever

5. Cream for T1 stomach allergic to 如意油

Today I learnt:

1. If fall down and swollen, use ice, put inside plastic bag, cover w towel, cover the swollen part, when ice melt, put inside freezer again.

2. No need apply any oil, just rub our hands until hot, massage on baby stomach 

3. Fever cannot eat rice : Wrong!

4. Flu cannot shower: Wrong!

5. T2 lots of wind on stomach, no milk, if really want to give milk, give thin milk, not thicken milk

Dr Goon

Very experience doctor, but she speaks quite arrogant, no nonsense or small talk 

Parking is an issue around the place, lots of double parking

The car next to us was blocked and the block car owner did not pick up phone call, neither the fellow has any car plate number

Despite need to wait long but worth the wait, also can wait at nearby coffee shop, lots of coffee shops near by

Very convenience place, got Chinese Herb Shop, Caring Pharmacy, AA Pharmacy near by

Getting them to take medicine is another battle, hubby said long time did not force them medicine...

I was very tired, when they are unwell

1 could not sleep esp T1 wakes me up and wants me to carry him around, coz he is not feeling well

T2 does not eat much, no appetite, vomit out what she ate, does not want to drink water either...worry worry, already very light weight!

Anyway, I shall stay positive, at least this round is home treatment and not treatment at hospital. 

Night night routine

Daddy usually comes back around 8-9pm
Twins will shouted for joy when daddy opens door
Next twins are train to get hold of daddy's towel, carry towel and pass to daddy who is waiting at master bedroom
T1 very attached to daddy, always want to shower w daddy, despite mummy protest, daddy will shower with T1, ok lah, let you play hot water at night!

Next both twins carry towel each and hang back to the living hall stand hanger.


Daddy & mummy then have dinner which daddy bought back, Wan Tan Mee, both of your also want to eat, sit on our lap each.

Next daddy wash dishes and mummy bring your brush your teeth, pee and change to sleeping shirts + pants.


Daddy's play time with you both, house is full of laughter and your daddy's joke on mummy...hmm

Inside bedroom:
First thing you both wants to stand on the table attached to the window and enjoy the panoramic night view. Your fingers will point here and there with "Er er.."  Trying to communicate w me w your baby talk.

Then your will play with my room window, next with my cream, clips and stuff on table as well as the curtain, which mummy then have to stop both of your by diverting your attention.

Until you both ready to be down the floor mattress, you both wants mummy to sing song for your

Ok, entertain your with few songs, T2 holds mummy fingers dancing on the bed, T1 holds mummy's throat and wondering why mummy throat moving when singing..

T1 and T2 then fight for space to sleep on mummy's pillow, yes, 3 of us share the same pillow

Sometimes daddy will sleep with your, but sometimes daddy needs to finish some work at his room so leave you both sleep w mummy's first

Sometimes

Twins runs around the room and until tired only sleep
Twins do all funny actives, turning their hands act like driving
Twins Ai Yar Yi Yar.... Paba, Mama, Jiji, BaoBei, Mao, Gaigai, CharZhe,  baby talk before going to sleep
T2 has special body language, her hands will have actions as thot she is playing violin before sleeping, very interesting
Both points to their private part and tell me they want to pee, sometimes is true sometimes they just find excuses to sneak out look for papa


Mummy also tired, sleep with both of your, hugs hugs with sweet dream babies

My hse is full of LOVE!

Your kiss makes me feel so high!

It was father's day and your papa been teaching you both how to kiss him!

Ying lai lai, kiss Papa, kiss Papa...
Papa kiss ying, kiss ying
Ying returns with kisses to Papa, makes papa so excited


Jian lai lai, kiss Papa kiss Papa...
Papa kiss kiss Jian Jian
Jian does not kiss back Papa, he turns away
Papa asked Jian kisses him many times he never kiss Papa...



Mummy never teach you both kiss mummy, Papa also never teach you both kiss mummy


At night, suddenly Jian came to me and kiss me
He kisses both my cheeks, one after another
Ying also follows his brother, also kisses both my cheeks....

Wow! Such a miracle, that shows you both loves mummy so much despite mummy never ask for kisses ...

When mummy told daddy Jian kisses me instead, daddy feels jealous yor...HAHA!


Darling you know, Jian kisses make me feel so high, its like making love with a man you know!

Daddy even more jealous!


Next morning I wake up with lots of saliva smell on my face.